We learn about how words can hurt our feelings. This means we are trying to not make it a big deal and that show us by not responding because we might get sad about this and you will make the situation, worse so that why we have come up with stop first. Step away from the situation and. Then tell a trusted adult so that you don’t hold all of that sadness and next Okay stiles first. This means that you can go on a clam site so that you don’t take all of your out on people and the last, one is Pause think online this means that you have time to think about want you are. Going to say to them but your words you might say will make them feel sad so that why you have to think about it. And I like this because I can show how you can act.